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From the classic Screw the Roses to the Better Built Bondage Book, we've got the best of power play and BDSM sexual education.

Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
new item Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes
The second volume of the rope bondage guides by Two Knotty Boys, Back on the Ropes delves a little deeper into tying sensual and decorative bondage. Full color, gorgeous photographs illustrate all techniques, while each step is clearly explained. Learn everything from blindfolds and gags to stirrups and foot webs, plus, a ton of basic and advanced knots that you can use to create these beautiful applications. | Learn more about Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes.

| $28.50

Better Built Bondage Book
Better Built Bondage Book
Ever wanted a home dungeon but found the accessories just a little pricey? Well now, thanks to Douglas Kent, you can D.I.Y. it! With detailed diagrams and easy to follow instructions, you can build just about anything you could think would belong in your very own dungeon. Learn how to make a rugged, portable St. Andrews Cross, or a foldable spanking bench! With over 100 projects, you’re bound to find something intriguing. This incredible book is a must have for those folks who want to play! 398pp. | Learn more about Better Built Bondage Book. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $54.95

Bondage for Sex
contains BDSM
Bondage for Sex
This guide is an excellent introduction to adding rope bondage to your sexual life. Written by sex educator and bondage model, Chanta Rose, Bondage for Sex provides a detailed and thorough look at how to use ropes, create several types of knots and how to introduce bondage rope play to your partner. Each page is presented with comprehensive explicit text and full-color photographs. Chapters include topics such as choosing rope, rope play terms, tie variations, how to discuss rope play, and ways to use all parts of the bed. | Learn more about Bondage for Sex. Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $41.50

Come Hither
Come Hither
By Gloria Braeme
Everything you ever wondered about the worlds of S/M and fetish, this chatty, friendly introduction explores the myriad possibilities - from light to heavy and in between. 2000. 335 pp. |
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| $21.00

Erotic Bondage Handbook
Erotic Bondage Handbook
By Jay Wiseman
Bondage enthusiasts will love this book -- chock full of information of the various rope, knots, equipment and bondage techniques for every part of the body. Good section on safety issues. 323 pp. |
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| $23.75

Family Jewels
Family Jewels
By Hardy Haberman
Finally an entire book devoted to male genital play. An excellent resource for anyone interested in power play, but also great information if you're looking to spice up your sex life.123 pages. |
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| $18.25

Flogging
Flogging
By Joseph W. Bean
Four "scenes" described in intimate, technical and erotic detail and followed by an analysis that explains all of the terms, tools, techniques as well as issues of partnering, negotiating, non-verbal communication and scene mishaps that will be applicable to any s/m scene. This book will give you invaluable tips on how to choose a flogger, read your partner and so much more. An inventive format with expert information. 140 pages. |
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| $16.75

Master's Manual
Master's Manual
A Handbook of Erotic Dominance
By Jack Rinella
An unparalleled discussion of the attitude and power it takes to become a master. This is a necessary read for anyone interested in the SM lifestyle. The Masters Manual builds on basic knowledge by explaining in a nonjudgmental fashion many topics one needs to know before embarking on a leathersex journey. There are 40 pieces covering topics from contracts to commitments, to how to deal when something goes wrong. A must have for the aspiring top. 199pp. |
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| $22.50

Mistress Manual
Mistress Manual
The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
By Mistress Lorelei
Written succinctly and intelligently crafted, the Mistress Manual tells you gently the ways to female dominance. Lorelei writes in a way very respectful to both the mistress and sub, and gives ideas, advice and understanding. This is a great beginner book for those wishing to learn the art of female dominance. 171pp. |
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| $23.75

Partners in Power
Partners in Power
Living In Kinky Relationships
By Jack Rinella
From the author of "the Master's Manual" and "The Complete Slave" comes Jack Rinella's third installment. With real people of all genders and orientations in mind, Partners in Power is a great book for those looking to live the BDSM life style and nurture great relationships (whether casual or longterm). With chapters on the archetypes of SM relationships, leather culture and vocabulary, finding a partner, resolving conflicts within relationships and much more, this book is sure to please the kink in you. 181pp. This item is currently out of stock |
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| $23.75

Play Piercing
Play Piercing
By Deborah Addington
Not for the faint of heart, this book reveals to us the ins and outs of playing with needles. The straight forward and technical information on preparation, perforation and sterilization make this book an important guide to read if you want to incorporate needles into your play. Included with all that important technical info, sexy examples are provided of scenes with needles that can help you get started sharpening up your play time. Be forewarned, this book contains some spiritual language that may make some people uncomfortable. As with everything else in life, take what you want and leave the rest. This book is an excellent and necessary how-to! 100pp. |
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| $19.99

Radical Ecstasy
Radical Ecstasy
The newest book from the writers who brought us The Ethical Slut and the New Bottoming Book. This time around, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy share with us real-life stories of exploring spirituality that come from erotic torture and submission. This book thoroughly explores this transcendent realm of kink, with practical tips and techniques to achieve heightened states of sacred-sex through solo and partnered sexual and BDSM practice. 213pp. | Learn more about Radical Ecstasy.

| $24.00

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
By Philip Miller & Molly Devon
This large book explains the basics of S/M in no-nonsense, homey tone. Comprehensive technical information and scene tips for the relative novice that is crucial for safety and a sense of erotic adventure. An excellent section on bondage is complete with easy-to-follow instructions and illustrations. Focus on male dominant, female submissive. 1995. 277 pp. This item is currently out of stock |
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| $29.99

Sensuous Magic
Sensuous Magic
By Pat Califia
A guide to s/m for adventurous couples, this is the 2nd edition, now revised and updated. For those who would like to venture into the some new territory, Califia starts with the basics of s/m with a definite focus on the emotional and psychological aspects. Includes short stories to help inspire the reader and give an idea of how a scene in your own play might work. 260pp. |
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| $19.50

The Compleat Slave
The Compleat Slave
By Jack Rinella
In Jack Rinella's follow up to his "Master's Manual", he shares his guidelines for creating a safe master/slave relationship. Filled with sections like the ever-important first meeting to proper slave training, leather images/emotions and much more, this book is great for anyone looking for a fabulous read as well as a valuable reference guide. 176pp. |
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| $22.50

The Compleat Spanker
The Compleat Spanker
By Lady Green
Another hot title from Greenery Press and the infamous Lady Green. Full of fun tips, tricks and ideas, this manual will leave a happy trail of satisfied readers and pink bottoms. An excellent primer! 1996. 90 pages. |
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| $18.25

The New Bottoming Book
The New Bottoming Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
The New Bottoming - and its companion The New Topping Book - are affirmative, informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of s/m and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 192 pages. |
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| $20.99

The New Topping Book
The New Topping Book
by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Along with the New Bottoming Book, this volume is affirmative and informative reading for those who've explored the basic terrain of S/M and want to learn about the practice and psychology of these complementary roles. 2001. 224 pages. |
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| $20.99

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
By Fetish Diva Midori
Written by one of our favourite sex educators, Fetish Diva Midori, this book offers serious, step by step instruction, that anyone can follow. Great photographs and excellent instructional diagrams. 163 pp. |
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| $39.25

The Sexually Dominant Woman
The Sexually Dominant Woman
A Workbook for Nervous Beginners
By Lady Green
For women who want to take control of the situation! Lady Green emphasizes safety, discusses the available paraphernalia and how to obtain it, and leads you through all the steps of a successful session. This title is especially recommended for novices. 1994. 89 pages. |
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| $20.00

Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
Toybag Guide to Canes and Caning
By Janet W. Hardy
In this Toybag guide (courtesy of Greenery Press), Janet Hardy takes us through the ins and outs of canes and caning. From selecting and purchasing a cane, to dungeon safety and technique, this book is small but thorough, and is an essential read for anyone considering caning someone they love. |
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| $13.99

Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps
By Jack Rinella
In this Toybag guide, veteran player and teacher Jack Rinella takes us through the essentials of clipping and clamping! With particular attention paid to positioning and clamp tension, this is a great book for anyone looking to push their limits, or anyone just beginning to explore intense sensation. |
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| $13.99

Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies
By Jay Wiseman
Wondering what to do when something goes wrong in the dungeon? Prolific S/M author Jay Wiseman brings his years of expertise to this essential guide to dungeon safety. This book tackles the most common S/M emergencies (and some uncommon ones too!) with great first aid information. The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies is mandatory reading for anyone involved in any kind of powerplay. |
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| $13.99

Toybag Guide to Erotic Knife Play
Toybag Guide to Erotic Knife Play
Miranda Austin and Sam Atwood
This book is a wonderful introduction to the sensual world of erotic knife play. With sections on how to minimize risks and choose the perfect implement as well as fun and sexy scene ideas. After this read you will have a better idea of how to incorporate knives safely into your sex play. 103pp. |
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| $13.99

Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship
Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship
By Midori
Fetish Diva Midori has finally given us a book on the fine art of foot and shoe worship. This volume packs a kick for the novice and experienced alike, taking this complex subject and breaking it down into step by step instructions and suggestions. From torture to pampering and everything in between, Midori will teach you that the possibilities are endless. 101pp. |
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| $13.99

Toybag Guide to High-Tech Toys
Toybag Guide to High-Tech Toys
By John Warren
Another brilliant little guide from the folks at Greenery Press! This one includes reviews of high tech toys and offers scenarios in which to use them. It tells of the newest materials for toys, futuristic bondage devices, and gives hard to find info on electricity play including information on the Violet Wand. A whole lot of ideas are crammed into this tiny little book! 103pp. |
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| $13.99

Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play
By Spectrum
Looking to embark on a power play adventure? There's no better place to start than hot wax - but before you do, be sure to check out this essential hot wax and temperature play guide from Greenery Press. Tips, techniques and lots of good safety advice for the novice or experienced player. |
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| $13.99

Toybag Guide to Medical Play
Toybag Guide to Medical Play
By Tempest
Wanna Play Doctor? Not for the faint hearted, the toy bag guide to medical play is a great little resource full of interesting ideas about how to use everyday medical equipment to spice up your sex life. With detailed information about how to maintain your equipment safely and hygienically and even how to set up a sexy medical scene on a budget. This book will show you that with medical play the possibilities are endless. 101pp. |
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| $14.00

Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Want to try decorative and functional rope bondage? Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes is a great guide to knots of all sorts, with detailed explanations, diagrams and photographs. Easy to use, and allows you to move at your own pace. Great for beginners as well as seasoned players that want to try some new ideas. | Learn more about Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes.

| $22.00

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